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Tamsen Webster's avatar

Urgency and rationality are mutually suppressive when it comes to how our brains work (literally!), so this is such important advice.

I’ always on the look out for urgency-aligned (read: fast!) ways to remind myself that I am just as subject to naive realism as everyone else and to switch my processing from urgent to analytical.

My favorite for the first: to mentally insert “I believe” in front of any statement of “fact” that I’m about to put out there AND in front of any statement that someone else puts forward, especially if I disagree.

On the second: To ask, either out loud or internally, “Is it?” or “does it?,” particularly in front of anything I’d otherwise automatically agree with.

Most of all, though, I respect your willingness to share your own struggle with this as a way of helping others.

Kevin Lee's avatar

Well said, thank you for sharing this, I need to reflect on moments where I've let me biases and narratives guide my thinking.

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